What Attracts Women and Why? A Picture Essay

What Attracts Women and Why? A Picture Essay

I don’t understand women.  I know I’m not the only man to ever have this realization, what bugs me is that the older I get, the less I think I know and the more I realize how little I actually know about the opposite sex.

For instance, what attracts them and why?


For instance, when I’m unshaven like this guy



But dressed like this man


Women with these type of jobs,



seem, to become very attracted to me.  In some cases asking for my contact information within a few minutes.



 But if  I’m clean-shaven like this guy,




and dressed like this man


nothing doing.


 Even stranger, suit but no beard also gets no reaction.


As for the group of women below, I’m even more unaware of their emotions.  How I’m dressed seems to do little to change their behaviour.  Of course, I could be wrong.






Like so many men, I think I’m emotionally blind and simply don’t notice anything unless I’m clubbed over the head!!!


So dear readers, what are your thoughts?  Can anyone explain why a suit and beard gets some women hot and bothered?  Are white collar women giving off similar signals but they’re too subtle for me to notice?

Put your thoughts in the comments section and help a midlife man understand!
















  1. Well this is easy. Women are attracted to men who they think will have enough money to provide for them. How can they tell that from one glance
    ? By what you wear. A suit looks like money. And women working low paying minimum wage jobs will be much more interested in a man they think can take care of them.

    • Thanks for the comment. I understand the part about the suit, but why are women more likely to pursue when the suit is combined with a beard? When I’m clean shaven and wearing a suit there is still the attraction but less aggression.

  2. When you find out let me know….i think it’s all about perception!

  3. Dude, get married, then what you don’t understand about women won’t matter anymore! Besides, how can you expect to have an authentic midlife experience if you’re not married!

    • Marriage is when I’d need to understand women the most + my married friends are having THEE most authentic midlife experience its called DIVORCE!!!!

  4. Hmmm. Existentialist questions. If your motto was “learn about women or die trying” I would bet on the second possibility 🙂

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